Couple Diary

Some Things Guys Can Do To Show A Girl That Courtesy Isn’t Dead

For some reason, this new “dating” style and lack of commitment is the popular trend, but remember back in middle school when having a boyfriend was the popular thing to do. Remember those butterflies you would get in your stomach when your crush walked by, and how all the girls would whisper to each other about who “liked” who. Now, I’m not saying we should resort to those middle school tactics because as adults we know how to communicate and handle things better then that.

Since we have this new dating culture in our society, I have created a few things that the good guys can do to show they are interested in a girl, in a respectful way.

A - Text her goodnight and good morning

This will also ensure the girl that you like her, which is the first step in starting a relationship.It can become a habit and then it looses it special factor.

B- Ask to hangout

By doing this, you will be on good standings with her, which can be very beneficial.You can both just have a good time and get to know each other better.

C-Know how to ask a girl out on a date

Be a man and ask a girl to dinner or lunch. Ask her in person or call her, don’t just text her. I’m sure most girls, as long as they’re not in a relationship, will take you up on this offer because this doesn’t happen very often anymore.

It is refreshing to see a guy take the lead and make the first move. If she happens to say no, move on to the next girl you like. She obviously wasn’t the right person for you.

D-Show her you care about her and want to be with her

Do something nice for her. Make her feel like you actually care about her and want to spend time with her. Take her likes into consideration and actually try to make her happy. 

E- Be the guy she wants to show off and bring home to her parents

Be nice to her. Show her you care. Spend time together and find things common interests. Be the person she loves and wants to show off. 

Spend time with the person who makes you happy. Even if this relationship is not the one that will last forever, you should be spending the time with someone who genuinely loves being with you..