Saturday, 17 December 2016

Trust That Will Make Any Relationship Survive

"To trust someone, without having trust issues, is to trust ourselves enough to reveal our authentic selves fully."



We all have trust issues, and if you say you don’t then I don’t trust you! (Just joking.) So, here are some tips that will help you trust more easily and openly in your life:

Define What Trust Means
For you and your partner. Hello, we ain’t mind readers, and if you believe you are, then why are you having trust issues? You’d already know what your partner is thinking.

Trust Yourself 
I know it’s already been said, but this is truly the starting point of resolving trust issues.

Take A Look In The Mirror

I hate to say it, but often, trust issues arise because what you see in someone else is an issue directly reflecting something you don’t want to see in yourself.
Look at yourself, and ask, “What’s really going on with my trust issues?” The honest answer may shock you, but it could also stop you from being a crazy maker.

Have An Open Relationship
 

Did I just advocate having an open relationship? YES!
As in an “open, transparent, let’s communicate, and quit hiding that we each have trust issues, admit our stuff” relationship.
No, this doesn’t mean you take on different lovers (although if that makes the trust issues scamper away, more power to you). But what I’m really advocating for is being open and vulnerable so that trust issues become dead non-issues, rather than a dead relationship!

Give Trust To Get Trust

If you put trust in, you’ll get some back. One of the hardest parts about trust, and resolving trust issues, is giving trust freely. However, when it’s a gift that keeps on giving, then it’s easy to see trust issues retreat.

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