Do Something Different

A lot of us are looking to make some positive changes in our life, but we have no idea where to begin. My suggestion is to do something different.

When you’re willing to do something different, you are telling yourself, your subconscious mind, and the entire Universe, “I’m asking for a change and I’m willing to DO something about it now.” The Universe responds to DOING since it actually means you’re starting to also BE something different.

You don’t even have to know what to do, at least not at the start. Doing ANYTHING different, that seems like it MIGHT head in the direction of what you are looking for, is a step in the right direction. You can make adjustments as you go. You can fine-tune the changes you are asking for later, once you get the hang of doing something different. The point is this:


 DO SOMETHING — ANYTHING — DIFFERENT

1. Write down the top three areas of your life that you feel need a bit of an overhaul.

2. On a scale of 1-10, how important is it TO YOU that this area change?
HINT: IF IT’S A 10, DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT TODAY

3.Now ask yourself this question: “What’s the easiest thing I could do different, starting now, that would allow this area to change?”

So, for example, let’s say you feel like you never have any time or space to yourself. Your batteries are getting run down and you don’t know what to do about it. If this sounds like you, one of the things that may come up when you ask that question is: “spend some time alone nurturing you.” And of course, your mind goes into all the reasons and justifications why it’s not possible.

“You’re too busy.”
“You have kids.”
“Your family, job, and social media obligations take up all of your time.”
“You’ll never get all your work done...”
And on and on and on and on....

That’s the way your mind works. It is always giving you the reasons why you can’t, not the way in which you can. So when you ask the question about what you can do different, give your mind a break. Let it know: “I’ve got this. Go take a break.” And let your childlike sense of wonder and possibility run the show for a few minutes.

Few Amazing Things That Happen When The Love Of Your Life Is Also Your Best Friend

Your friends are their friends, and vice versa

They know what all your friends are up to and they ask for updates on them. They’re not trying to get out of the conversation, but are actually engaged.

You have ready-made plans all the time

Everything you two do together is better than what you do separately. Seriously, they make even the most boring, lame things the most fun ever.

You don’t argue over the past

When your partner is your best friend, you don’t care about the stuff they did before you. You might poke fun at each other for how one of you used to be in band or men’s choir, but you don’t bring up ex’s and petty things from the past in an attempt to hurt the other person. You’re happy to be together right now, always.

You have fun sex, like really fun

Sex will be FUN. It will be dirty and hot, but it will also be fun. You won’t worry about what your body looks like or anything because this person is your person. They’re not judging. They love you for you and that’s the good shit right there.

You hate the same things and people

They roll their eyes at all the things you roll your eyes at and that’s love. You know it’s love when they hate all the same things you hate and you never have to justify your hates because they are right there with you. It’s like, if that’s not a soul mate, then what is?

Trust Is More Important Than Love - Why ?

Love only reflects our ability to trust others

Our ability to selflessly give ourselves to others comes with a guarantee of reciprocation. We trust in order to be trusted, but we love only with the hope of being loved back.

Judgment is clouded by love but illuminated by trust.

We think that love can save us from emotional roller coasters. More often than not, we are blinded by what love has to offer—gaining the acceptance, admiration, and approval of others.

Trust is what makes us love again.

At the end of it all, after we fall down, get back up, and head back on track, trust enables us to believe that deep inside, we are all hopeless romantics just trying to find our own better half among the seven billion little souls on Earth.

We can only love someone we trust.

Love is built on trust. As rational individuals, we can only naturally love someone we already trust. Relationships that aren’t anchored in trust are not made to survive rocky trials.

Reasons Why Girls And Boys Can’t Be Best Friends

Girl and boy do everything together, girl and boy are best friends, girl and boy act like they could be dating—but they’re not. Everything on the surface adds up to a perfect friendship: a balanced dynamic, always fresh with two unique sides and thought processes.

Girls and boys can be friends, but they cannot be best friends. Here’s why:

You never really know what they’re feeling

Is he secretly in love with you, despite denying the possibility? Are you secretly in love with him, even though you think you only see him as more of a sibling? Should you be secretly in love with him? Would it make everything fall into place—or would it destroy everything?

You find yourself getting jealous

If your friend starts dating someone or spends more time with a new potential significant other, you might feel as though things are falling apart.

Sometimes you end up being let down

You hold your friend to a higher standard because the relationship is—on some levels—more intimate, even though it is just a friendship.

Sometimes in close friendships, caring gets confused for feelings

When you are best friends with someone of the opposite gender (assuming you are heterosexual), any action you take to show your friend how much you care can be passed off as a secret sign of showing affection on a deeper level.

Your relationship is held to a different standard than other friendships

Because of that unusual dynamic between the two of you, you expect certain things to happen and/or not happen. When these expectations aren’t met, they hurt worse than any of your other friendships.

Trust That Will Make Any Relationship Survive

"To trust someone, without having trust issues, is to trust ourselves enough to reveal our authentic selves fully."

We all have trust issues, and if you say you don’t then I don’t trust you! (Just joking.) So, here are some tips that will help you trust more easily and openly in your life:

Define What Trust Means


For you and your partner. Hello, we ain’t mind readers, and if you believe you are, then why are you having trust issues? You’d already know what your partner is thinking.

Trust Yourself 

I know it’s already been said, but this is truly the starting point of resolving trust issues.

Take A Look In The Mirror


I hate to say it, but often, trust issues arise because what you see in someone else is an issue directly reflecting something you don’t want to see in yourself.

Look at yourself, and ask, “What’s really going on with my trust issues?” The honest answer may shock you, but it could also stop you from being a crazy maker.

Have An Open Relationship
 

Did I just advocate having an open relationship? YES!

As in an “open, transparent, let’s communicate, and quit hiding that we each have trust issues, admit our stuff” relationship.

No, this doesn’t mean you take on different lovers (although if that makes the trust issues scamper away, more power to you). But what I’m really advocating for is being open and vulnerable so that trust issues become dead non-issues, rather than a dead relationship!

Give Trust To Get Trust


If you put trust in, you’ll get some back. One of the hardest parts about trust, and resolving trust issues, is giving trust freely. However, when it’s a gift that keeps on giving, then it’s easy to see trust issues retreat.

Boys Should know About Girls

Girls Says : 

"Relationships are about growing together, getting stronger together, working better together, and making tweaks on both sides."

• We want you to stand up for us.

If someone is questioning choices we’ve made or actions we’ve taken, stand up for us. If someone is putting us down, stand up for us. If someone is minimizing our accomplishments, stand up for us. If someone calls us crazy…first agree with them, then stand up for us.

• We want you to make us laugh.

This is probably the sweet spot for every woman. We want you to be able to make us laugh—when we’re happy, it makes us happier; when we’re sad, it makes us happy; and when we’re mad…

• We want little surprises 

we do like flowers and jewelry, and we’ll gladly accept both…and totally love you for it. But we don’t expect you to go out and spend an arm and a leg every month to keep us happy. 

•  We want to be able to talk to you.

About everything and about nothing. Be open to talking about the relationship. Always. If there’s something we’re unhappy with, be open to communicating about it. Don’t get defensive. Don’t shut us out. That won’t solve anything. 

• We want you to text us.

Doesn’t matter what you text us—just text us. Tell us good morning—we’ll be thrilled you’re thinking of us. Tell us you can’t wait to see us—it’ll make our day. 

• We want you to care about us.

Ask us how our day was. Because we need to feel like you’re still interested in what goes on in our lives. And if we’ve had a bad day, whether it was at work or at home with the kids, listen to us.

• We want to feel appreciated.

For who we are, for what we do, and for what we’re striving to become. If we make dinner, say thanks or let us know it was good…and if it wasn’t good, compliment the way the water tasted.

Excited Facts of Switzerland

Facts :

Switzerland

• In Switzerland, some people still regularly eat dog and cat meat. It's legal in the country.

• Switzerland only gave women the right to vote in 1971.

• The average adult in Switzerland has a net worth of US$513,000.

• Switzerland has the second highest life expectancy in the world with 83.4 years. Because guinea pigs are prone to loneliness, it's illegal in Switzerland to own just one.

• The Swiss own more guns per head than the Iraqis.

• The Longest Tunnel in the World is 57 km long and goes from Switzerland to Italy underneath Alps. It took 17 Years to Build.

• Switzerland sent 31 soldiers to Afghanistan in 2003, its first military deployment since 1815.

• Declaring cats is legal in most U.S. states but banned in at least 22 countries including Germany, Finland, Switzerland, Australia, New Zealand and Japan.

• In 2015, Apple Inc. was worth more than Switzerland, Sweden or Nigeria.